There is a certain idea in society that a man should look plus or minus in a certain way – to wear or not to wear certain clothes, accessories, etc.…
This narrative has been and is being laid down by many factors: historical, national, rational, kindred, etc. But as our history, social history, the history of fashion, and costume in particular shows us, norms and standards were often radically opposed at different times.… It’s just a 180 degree turn… From absolutely utilitarian clothes to expressing individuality and status through it, well, actually, that’s how it develops. And clothes now are not only comfort and convenience, but also a means of self—expression… of one’s feelings, emotions, and moods.… This is one of the ways to have a non-verbal dialogue with each other and society … to declare yourself and your individuality, the importance of your feelings and the desire to be somehow understood and heard.
Therefore, I admit, all the judgments that someone should look one way or another, wear, or not wear, and so on, cause me aggressive sadness.…
Well, because: “what’s your business?”. This phrase is not a claim, but a defense of one’s personal space. No one has abolished freedom of expression — it is a right of anyone, only if it does not infringe on the freedom of another person … physical freedom.
If this “hurts” you morally or “affects” your condition — try to discuss it with a psychologist!!))
— Oh, you know, men who wear earrings annoy me!!
— Well… men wore earrings as soon as they learned how to mine metal.
— But this is wrong…
— In a healthy, mature society where people accept each other, there is nothing wrong. Do you want to challenge centuries of history?
Or is it the fear of your own desires that speaks to you?