You are devastated & want to close this “hole” with sex. At such moments, you need sex not because you really want to do it, but so that you can feel that you still mean something…
And after that, you know, it only gets worse.
Are you masking your real feelings with sex?
Yes, the situation is similar to the first point, but do you know more about what?
About how people use sex as a universal solution to their problems.
For example, many couples have sex as a reconciliation, thereby turning a blind eye to the dialogue with their partner.
Are you not sure that you can really have sex?
Such people have shame inside for their intimate desires.
And a person can’t really enjoy what they block out in their head.
And now don’t have sex at all? No, it’s not…
Of course, no one forbids you to practice them, just if you find yourself in one state or another, think for a second – what is happening to you at the moment…
And in any case, do not blindly enter into intimacy with a completely different person.