Pay attention to the erotic content plots that your partner likes. Not to repeat them literally, but to notice a common element.
These can be:
- accessories or items of clothing (underwear, heels, stockings, uniform, blindfold, etc.);
- power or loss of control;
- initiative of one of the partners;
- eye contact or lack thereof;
- slow or very intense pace;
- fixation of hands, limitation of mobility;
- a sense of taboo;
- risk of being noticed;
- praise, admiration, or, conversely, humiliation;
- dirty talk, commands, whispers;
- abundance of kisses, saliva, semen, touch, smell, texture, temperature, breathing, timbre of voice or moans;
- Focus on specific body parts or type of stimulation;
- a certain atmosphere: music, light, place, smells, etc.